Prayers to Pray Over Our Children

One of my daily tasks as a parent is to pray over my son. I also encourage him to pray about different things in his life that are going on at the time. Right now his prayers are very concentrated on the new school year, he uses the prayer card that I posted a link to on my first blog entry. He is seven now and for the last 6 months I guess he has really started to bloom in his prayer life. Although every child is different, so don't get frustrated if you don't see results as you would like, God has His timing for all of us and it is perfect! I did not step into mine until I was 26 years old. I was not raised in an active christian home, I did not see my parents have a relationship with God, therefore I did not know how to have a relationship with Him. I will get into this deeper in another post. My point is if we as parents do not lead and set the example at home, then our children are missing out on how to have a deeper relationship with God and we are also opening the door to outside influences to lead them. Is it possible for a child to have that relationship with God even though it is not taught in the home? Absolutely! I have children on Wednesday night that get on our church bus that are growing everyday in their relationship with God. How much more would that child know and grow if it was a daily learning experience at home?
Here is some prayers I use in praying over my son, when I first made this a daily goal for myself I did not know where to start so I am going to post some I found in different book, websites, ect. Our words are powerful, "Death and life are in the power of the tongue, and those who love it will eat its fruit." (Proverbs 18:21)
A must read for parents is "The Power Of A Praying Parent" by Stormie Omartian, this book is full of specific prayers for your children young or old and also scriptures verses to go with the prayers. There is power in the word of God!
Here is some prayers to bless our children from John Kilpatrick's website:http://www.johnkilpatrick.org/childs-blessing.pdf
The following prayers are from the book "How to Be a God Chaser and a Kid Chaser" by Tommy and Thetus Tenney.
It is titled "A 31-Day Kid Chaser's Prayer Guide for God Chasers":
Day 1: Claim a spirit of REVERENCE.
Scripture focus: Proverbs 9:10
Prayer declaration: A respect of the Lord.

Day 2: Claim a spirit of HUMILITY.
Scripture focus: James 4:7-10
Prayer declaration: A heart of submission

Day 3: Claim a spirit of PURITY.
Scripture focus: Matthew 5:8
Prayer declaration: A longing to be clean

Day 4: Claim a spirit of PURPOSE.
Scripture focus: Proverbs 4:25-27
Prayer declaration: A sense of direction

Day 5: Claim a spirit of SIMPLICITY.
Scripture focus: 1 John 2:15-17
Prayer declaration: A lifestyle free from the world

Day 6: Claim a spirit of COMMITMENT.
Scripture focus: Joshua 24:14-15
Prayer declaration: A determination to stand firm

Day 7: Claim a spirit of DILIGENCE.
Scripture focus: 2 Peter 1:5
Prayer declaration: A willingness to work

Day 8: Claim a spirit of SERVANTHOOD.
Scripture focus: Galatians 6:9-10
Prayer declaration: A desire to help others

Day 9: Claim a spirit of CONSISTENCY
Scripture focus: James 1:5-8
Prayer declaration: A lifestyle of steadiness

Day 10: Claim a spirit of ASSURANCE.
Scripture focus: Hebrews 10:22
Prayer declaration: A depth of conviction

Day 11: Claim a spirit of AVAILABILITY.
Scripture focus: Isaiah 6:8
Prayer declaration: A readiness to obey

Day 12: Claim a spirit of LOYALTY.
Scripture focus: Ruth 1:16
Prayer declaration: A zeal for fidelity

Day 13: Claim a spirit of SENSITIVITY.
Scripture focus: Luke 10:30-37
Prayer declaration: A heart that is soft

Day 14: Claim a spirit of RELIABILITY.
Scripture focus: 1 Corinthians 4:2
Prayer declaration: A depth of dependability

Day 15: Claim a spirit of TENDERNESS.
Scripture focus: 2 Kings 22:19
Prayer declaration: A brokenness before God

Day 16: Claim a spirit of MATURITY.
Scripture focus: Hebrews 5:12-14
Prayer declaration: A capacity to grow

Day 17: Claim a spirit of HOLINESS.
Scripture focus: 1 Peter 1:16
Prayer declaration: A Christlike lifestyle

Day 18: Claim a spirit of COMPASSION.
Scripture focus: Mark 8:1-2
Prayer declaration: A capacity to care

Day 19: Claim a spirit of REVELATION.
Scripture focus: Ephesians 1:15-18
Prayer declaration: A longing to listen

Day 20: Claim a spirit of SELF-DENIAL.
Scripture focus: Luke 9:23
Prayer declaration: A sacrificial heart

Day 21: Claim a spirit of CONFIDENCE.
Scripture focus: Philippians 4:13
Prayer declaration: A baptism in boldness

Day 22: Claim a spirit of INTEGRITY.
Scripture focus: Romans 12:17
Prayer declaration: A commitment to honesty

Day23: Claim a spirit of REPENTANCE.
Scripture focus: Luke 3:8
Prayer declaration: A willingness to change

Day 24: Claim a spirit of TRUST.
Scripture focus: Psalm 125:1
Prayer declaration: A reliance on God

Day 25: Claim a spirit of UNITY.
Scripture focus: 1 Corinthians 1:10
Prayer declaration: A peacemaker's heart

Day 26: Claim a spirit of TEACHABILITY.
Scripture focus: Titus 3:2
Prayer declaration: A hunger to learn

Day 27: Claim a spirit of PRAYER.
Scripture focus: Isaiah 40:31
Prayer declaration: A desire to wait

Day 28: Claim a spirit of SUBMISSION.
Scripture focus: Ephesians 5:21
Prayer declaration: A choosing to yield

Day 29: Claim a spirit of RESTORATION.
Scripture focus: Isaiah 61:1-2
Prayer declaration: A mantle of reconciliation

Day 30: Claim a spirit of AUTHORITY.
Scripture focus: Matthew 16:19
Prayer declaration: A warrior's anointing

Day 31: Claim a spirit of GENEROSITY.
Scripture focus: Matthew 10:8
Prayer declaration: A desire to give

I really love the way Tommy and Thetus Tenney have laid out this prayer Guide. It leaves room for you to add your own prayer, it also gives opportunity for the Lord to speak to you through the scripture verses, and anyone can use this, You can use it to pray over your children, yourself, your Children's Church, your Youth Group, or your Congregation.
I hope these are helpful tools and hope that together we can make a difference for God's kingdom. Let's raise up some mighty soldiers for His kingdom! Please feel free to leave a comment below if this blog is helping or if there is a subject you would like to see on here!
Blessings,
April Thomas

Equipping Our Children with God's Word

This entry is inspired from our church's Monday Night Women's Meeting. For the first hour of our meeting, we have a time of prayer, reading the bible, praise, whatever you feel led to do. Well I brought my Children's Church material to pray over and study. I started praying, "God, what is your heart for the kids this Wednesday?" As I was looking through my material, I felt a pull toward a particular Children's Sermon titled "Hiding God's Word in Your Heart." So then I said "Lord what are you trying to tell me?" Then He said "My Word is going to be an important weapon against the warfare the children will encounter this year." I was also led to this scripture: 10Finally, be strong in the Lord and in his mighty power. 11Put on the full armor of God so that you can take your stand against the devil's schemes. 12For our struggle is not against flesh and blood, but against the rulers, against the authorities, against the powers of this dark world and against the spiritual forces of evil in the heavenly realms. 13Therefore put on the full armor of God, so that when the day of evil comes, you may be able to stand your ground, and after you have done everything, to stand. 14Stand firm then, with the belt of truth buckled around your waist, with the breastplate of righteousness in place, 15and with your feet fitted with the readiness that comes from the gospel of peace. 16In addition to all this, take up the shield of faith, with which you can extinguish all the flaming arrows of the evil one. 17Take the helmet of salvation and the sword of the Spirit, which is the word of God. 18And pray in the Spirit on all occasions with all kinds of prayers and requests. With this in mind, be alert and always keep on praying for all the saints. Ephesians 6:10-18
We need to equip our children with the tools they need to be bold in the Lord. I believe God was saying that one of the most important tools we can give them is The Word of God. Here is a link to a website on how to teach your children The Armor of God, which is what I believe God is saying is going to be crucial in their daily lives this year. http://www.crossroad.to/text/articles/armorofgod.html
We also need to show and teach our children how to hide God's word in their heart by helping them learn scripture that will combat the things they will be faced with, not only just in school but throughout their lives. Wednesday night part of my lesson is a scripture card game. You take a scripture verse, write each word of the scripture and where it is in the bible on separate index cards, as they start to memorize the verse you start taking out a card that they have to fill in the blank of the word on the card you took out, you do this until they know the whole verse. Very easy to do and fun for the kids!
One of my discussion points for Wednesday is to ask them, "Would it help us at school if we hide God's word in our heart?" How? Let me give you an example: Someone says,"You can't play basketball, you can't even dribble the ball!" God's word says: "I can do all things through Christ which strengthens me. Philippians 4:13" (there is many more scenarios which this verse is good for) Another example: "What if something frightens you?" God's Word says: "For God has not given us the spirit of fear; but of power, and of love, and of a sound mind. 2 Timothy 1:7"
I encourage you to pray for direction on some scripture verses to help your child/children memorize. My prayer is "Lord, You are all knowing. I pray that you would give me wisdom and revelation on scriptures that will help the children in Children's Church and my son combat things they will be faced with. You know their coming and going, the beginning and end. Please help me to help them."
I believe all scripture is important, please don't think I am making any scripture more important. But I do believe God has spoke a word to us and He will equip us with the tools we need for this time.
Also during the last hour or so of our Women's meeting we come together and share things we've heard from the Lord and just what is on our heart. At the end we prayed for "Boldness". Boldness for ourselves, not to be afraid to witness to people and to be bold enough to be obedient to the things God tells us to do, and for boldness in our children as well. I hope you will join us in that prayer, we all need God to strengthen us and to give us boldness in the things He calls us to do. I am going to post some prayers you can pray over your children from different books I have tomorrow. Together, through God's guidance, I just know we can make a difference!
If you would like to come to one of our Monday night Women's meetings it starts at 6p.m. and usually ends at 8p.m. We meet in the sanctuary at Warrior Assembly of God, across the street from Jack's in Warrior. We would love to have you!

Praying for the Upcoming School Year

I believe that especially now with all that our children are faced with in school that it is extremely important to be in prayer about the upcoming school year. Last night in Children's Church I did a lesson on this, and it was incredible the reponse I got out of the children. These children are faced with so many things at school. Here are some of the things that were shared: "I just want to have a good friend this year", "I want to have a nice teacher that is not mad all the time", "I want to do better on my report card", "I don't want to be the one that gets picked on", and the list went on. I believe it is very important that we sit down with our children and ask them some questions about what they are concerned about for this next school year and then start praying about it with them. We can make a difference and it all starts with prayer, we need to seek God's heart for our school's through prayer and His word and start praying it back to Him. Even if your child is in daycare or preschool this is very important if not more because those people are influencing your children a good part of the day, you can never start too soon! I am including some things I passed out to the children last night that are good tools for you to use to help them to make a difference in their own lives through prayer. I believe that if we equip our children now with the tools they need that when they are faced with a situation they will know what to do, it will be second nature to them. How awesome would it be for your child to be the light and make a difference in another child life? How much more would our children actually learn academically if they were equipped to handle all of the emotional challenges of school?

Here is a link to the Prayer Card I used, if you cannot order it then just write it down, this is an awesome tool, my son put it by his bed and prayed it last night before bed.
http://http//www.navpress.com/images/pdfs/9781600061837.pdf

Here is a page I passed out titled " Specific Prayers to go with My Prayer Card":
1. God, I struggled very hard in_____________. Please help me to do better in this area this school year.
2. God, I had a bad attitude about______________. Please help me to have a good attitude about it this year.
3. God, these 3 things I would like to do better in this school year.
a._________________
b._________________
c._________________
4. God, I was not so nice to_________________ last year. Help me to reflect your love and attitude toward them this year.
5. God, I really want to make a difference in my school this year. I pray that you would show me some things I can do to make a difference. (after you have prayed this and God starts telling you some things or you have a "pull" toward something you can write them on the following lines and then pray that God would show you how to achieve them and that He would give you the strength and courage to start doing them and accomplish them.)
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I hope this stirs something in you and we can "Parent with Passion" and help make a difference!